Finding a good dating site can be difficult, especially when there are so many sites and apps to choose from and many more that seem to pop up overnight. I have been made aware that a site that was known as “3nder” or “Thrinder” has rebranded itself into an app known as Feeld , which is supposed to be an app similar to Tinder and Dating In Your 30s dating service Bumble…with a twist.
What is that twist? Well, if you’re curious, you need to read this Feeld review to not only find out what it’s about but if it’s worth using as a dating app.
What is Feeld?
Feeld has gotten a lot of press lately as a newbie (sort of) dating app that goes beyond the “vanilla” and is instead geared towards those that are looking for something more. They state on their site that “Feeld is a dating app for exploration, curiosity, and pleasure. Join solo or with a partner to find lovers and friends.” They are aiming to connect individuals and couples who see sex not as “one size fits all”, but more of a normal sexual desire that should be explored in whatever manner that means to you and your partner(s).
With Feeld being relatively newer on the scene, it is still building up its member base, so smaller towns are obviously not going to have the number of members that a larger city has, but that will change once word-of-mouth starts spreading how good this app is. And don’t let the smaller number of members stop you from checking Feeld out, it really is a great way to explore your sexual desires.
If you’ve ever used sites like Bumble or Tinder, you’ll recognize the look of Feeld. You’ll see profiles of those that meet your search criteria along with a short bio and a picture that you can look at for free. If you like what you see, you can “heart” them, if you don’t, you can pass on them. If it’s a match on their end too, you can then start chatting with each other.
Here’s a note about the profiles: If you’re in a relationship and you’ve both signed up with Feeld, your profiles will link together. That’s a great thing, actually, because it lets other members know that you’re not completely single and you may have a partner who wants to join in with you and a third (or fourth, or fifth…). Also, if you are a bit more worried about putting yourself out there on a kinky dating app, you can use an alias, which is another great feature.
Some dating apps have very questionable profiles and pictures of their members. Honestly, this is your calling card and you should make it stand out no matter what dating site you’re using. Feeld has a very good selection of profiles with clear pictures so you know what you’re getting with a potential match.
And, don’t think that everyone on Feeld is unattractive, either! I would say that approximately 60% or more of the members are average in the looks department, or better. This is pretty on-par with Tinder, although Feeld members are more likely to share more about themselves and their kinks, which makes sense given the type of app this is.
Keep in mind that with it being a kink site, you’ll likely be shown matches that may or may not be your preferred gender. If you’re not into that, ignore it, it’s really no big deal but can be a little jarring if you’re not expecting it.